If you’re a young person coming into care, there are some important things you should know. Here’s a simple guide to help you understand what you can expect.
Why am I coming into care?
Sometimes, living at home isn’t safe or the best option for a child or young person. Coming into care can happen for many reasons, like if your parents can’t look after you properly. Social workers will talk with you and your family to make sure that going into care is the best choice for you.
Where will I live?
When you come into care, you might live with a foster family. Foster families are people who take care of children and young people when they can’t live at home. Some foster carers live in Southwark, but sometimes you may live with carers in other areas. You will be in a safe home, and your foster carers will make sure you have everything you need, like food, clothes, and school supplies.
In some cases, you might live in a children’s home, which is a place where several young people live together with adults who look after them. The people in charge will make sure you feel comfortable and safe.
Will I still see my family?
Social workers will help decide how often you can see your family. If it’s safe and possible, you will be able to visit or talk to them. Your social worker will talk to you about your feelings and help you stay in touch with the important people in your life.
What will happen at school?
When you come into care, it’s really important to keep going to school. If it’s possible, you might stay at your current school, or you could start at a new school that’s close to where you’re living. Your foster carers or the adults in your children’s home will help you with things like homework and making sure you’re settled at school.
Who will look after me?
You will have a social worker who is there to support you and make sure you’re safe. Your social worker will visit you regularly to talk about how you’re feeling and if there’s anything you need. They will make sure that everything is going well at your foster home or children’s home.
You will also have foster carers or adults in a children’s home who will look after you day-to-day. They’ll make sure you have meals, go to school, and take part in activities you enjoy.
Will I get to make decisions?
Yes! It’s really important that your opinions are listened to. You will have regular meetings with your social worker to talk about your care. You can share your thoughts and ideas on things like where you live, your school, and how often you see your family. If you feel worried or unhappy, your social worker is there to help.
Can I still do fun things?
Absolutely! Being in care doesn’t mean you can’t do the things you enjoy. Your foster carers or the adults in your children’s home will encourage you to join activities, play sports, or hang out with friends. There are also special events and activities just for young people in care, so you can meet others and have fun.
What if I feel worried?
It’s normal to feel worried, confused, or even upset when you’re coming into care. If you have any concerns or feel unsure about anything, talk to your social worker, foster carers, or any trusted adult. They are there to listen and help you feel more comfortable.
Your Future
Being in care is about making sure you’re safe and looked after. It’s a chance for you to feel secure while you grow up. There are lots of people around who will help and support you through this time, so you’re never alone.
If you have any questions or feel unsure about what’s happening, don’t be afraid to ask your social worker. They are there to guide and support you, and you can always share your thoughts about what feels right for you.
